1. If he doesn’t answer, don’t keep sending texts. If he wanted to talk to you, he would’ve responded.

2. People will make time for you when they care about you. If he says he’s too busy or constantly cancels his plans, he doesn’t care. People fight for you when they care.

3. Don’t let him touch you on the first date. If he tries, he’s not there for the same reasons you are.

4. You can tell a lot about a person by their favorite book.

5. If he can stomach more than ten straight shots without feeling a thing, he drinks too much.

6. Ask the uncomfortable things. When was the last time he was so high he couldn’t speak? What does he regret the most? Does he drink to remember or to forget?

7. Don’t send pictures unless you want to. If he has to talk you into it, don’t do it. If you hesitate, don’t do it. If you do take a picture, don’t include your face. Keep yourself safe.

8. If you can’t laugh when you’re having sex with him, maybe you aren’t sleeping with the right person. Sex isn’t about tricks and tips and routines.

9. If he hurts you, cut him out. He’s gone, he isn’t coming back, and you don’t need to prolong the pain.

10. Don’t be afraid to open up again. I promise not everyone will love you with a knife behind their back.

Boy advice from someone who made the same mistakes too often (via guiseofgentlewords)

(via kingofmisanthrope)

harrietheath:

Harriet Heath.

Tree trunk painting by 23 year old Chinese student, Wang Yu. 
pill-y:

Slept on the roof with my best friend. Watched a sky full of stars at night and woke up to the sun rising over the ocean. Such an amazing weekend.
nymphoninjas:


Dear Ninja & Trouble,
If there’s one thing that makes me uncomfortable, it’s taking risks. With short term reactions, I’m better at it, but when it comes to decisions that will dictate my future, I get scared because the last thing I want to do is mess up. My boyfriend gave me words of encouragement as I beat myself over the success of my older sister vs. my own: "… You get more than just one shot at something- take your time and go at your pace but take risks and find out what you really want in the process,” and they’re words that I need to remember.   
We went camping a few weeks ago and this is from one of our mornings. 
Happy Sunday and best wishes, Thesolis x

The focus and angle of this picture make it feel so familiar, like of laid in this tent before. I recognize those hairy legs, the bare thighs and the tree out side the door. Thank you for sharing your risk with us, it looks like an exciting and relaxing moment. 
alleneverafter:

civilizedinsanity:

antiquitie:

swinq:

yooo this looks dope on your blog

it really does

It’s like addicting to watch. 

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